You call my love a bluff?
Don’t get me wrong okay
You are right to call my love a bluff
Is that truly what it is?
Or is it that you are so used to wrong love that you can’t identify pure love?
Yes, pure love
You are so use to quickies that a wait is just wrong
You are so use to been lied too that the truth is cliché
You are used to games that honest moves you doubt
Your foolhardiness churns me
Do not blame your wrong love on me
You only attracted what you rated yourself to have
You are worth more but what if you do not know so?
What if you keep rating yourself needy and desperate?
How is that my fault?
I can’t let my love be a bluff
I won’t let you convert me
I will walk away and pray
Pray that you heal to identify love
A love that heals
A love that is true
A love that is genuine
A love that seeks out the best and to be the best
I pray you will not bluff true love when next it comes
I love you yet i love me too
Robbing Peter to pay Paul is not me
We all want to have a glimpse into our future. We want to know how our lives will turn out. If we will get that job and what career we will build or what structures, we will set up and possible who we will marry. It is good to know but it is better to have faith that all will turn out great in our future.
Not many of us can handle the result of what we desire or ask for. I believe it is better to let things unfold with time than push to know and end in depressions. Some people go to Continue reading
You get fond of a guy/girl and they begin to think that your world is solely depended on them? What a fallacy. People chose to be friends with you or make you a part of their world not out of your superiority but out of sheer understanding that we all need each other to survive and because people offer us room to learn and grow.
You keep acting up and yes, the accommodate it but it can’t be so forever. So now if you are thinking that they are going to be begging you always when you begin acting up after they have called you to order severally and condone your swings, then you have another thing coming. You should get ready for a long wait. Two wrongs do not make a right yet friendship is an agreement of two to share common concerns and interest so why do you want only your interest to continually be served.
Learn to value every moment and every experience. Turning the hands of time is not a privilege we all can command at will. Value your friendships….you never know what tomorrow holds.
Getting found is a process. Patience is needed for the process to be materialized as well as established. In as much as the man has to do the finding, the lady has to ensure she is adequately positioned. If interest and attraction already in place, check to see that your priorities in place and more so it won’t hurt to do some compatibility checks.
- Spiritual Compatibility (Amos 3:3)
- Financial Compatibility ( Heb 13:5, Matt6:24 , Prov 17:16)
- Character Compatibility (Prov 22:24)
- Emotional Compatibility (Prov 27:17)
- Communication Compatibility ( Eph 4:26, Prov 18:13)
- Physical Compatibility (1 Pet 3:3-4, Gen 24:16, Gen 29:17, I sam 16:12, Est 2:7)
Yes compatibility checks. This will help you know if you have found yours or the finding process needs to continue. All categories must not be 100% but which ever you choose to make prime, it should be based on the purpose you believe you are here on earth to fulfill. Hope the list helps
Personally i love love. So do not get it twisted, love is a beautiful thing. Does that mean we should go about worrying about love and who will love us or who we will love? Well no. Love is seeking (purposefully) not worrying. Seeking to be and do things right and in perspective. Marriage is for eternity and is meant to bring glory to The marriage Creator. This brings me to my 4th Tip Continue reading
Now onto our 3rd tip on how to be found by yours
Tip 3 : Get Working
Yes I know you already have a job or are in the process of getting one. However, that is not what I mean. Begin working on yourself both on your in-looks and out-looks. You must be pleasantly admirable. We do marry humans not spirits… so work on both the physical you and the spirit you. Work on your potentials.Put your priorities in order.
Take this single season to grow yourself into the best of you that you can be because when married you will be occupied by many new things and you need to be in a state to attract what whom you desire
A wise man once said that “until you do the right thing, your rights will not be given to you” so get working so you can attract what will make for your glorious destiny
Your want to be found be yours, my next tip
Tip 2: Be Content
This is not to say get sloppy or lose interest but celebrate this stage of singleness knowing that chance and time happens to all. If you keep wishing you were in a relationship or married, you will miss out on the fun of this stage and the learning you need to, do that will prepare you for the next of your life.
Life is in stages. Some people maybe ahead of you at one stage or another, it doesn’t mean your turn will not come. Creation was purposefully made so celebrate where you are now and look forward to where you will be soonest not from the eyes of desperation but from a place of confidence and worth.
Hope tip 1 was helpful. Stay blessed