Musings with God 1


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Why are you acting as if I am a liar? You Know I am not. I cannot lie and will never lie. I do not lie. It is not in me to lie. I am not your equal or mate that you will be dragging words with me; That you will be giving unnecessary things place in your heart and life.

You know me. Listen to that silent inner voice. You know that I am more real than reality. You know that I am more faithful and my words more reliable than all the power there is in my matchless name

What happened to the walk we had? What happened to our trust and relationship. What happened to the confidence you had in me? You should let me love you and guard your heart with all diligence please. Do not let their fear become yours. I choose you, I called you and YOU are MINE. Yes MINE. Nothing can hurt or harm you. Trust my unfailing love

(Now to you reading; God is assuring you that He is for you and no matter what, He’s got you)

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Moderation


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Have you ever met a talky person? They most often than not bring life and energy into any gathering. They are like the positive energy to kill boredom. However, they land in much trouble once they do not learn when to bridle their tongues.

Most times we talk too much for our good. I am not an advocate for being secretive, however we need to use wisdom and not destroy ourselves by giving out so much information about us and our affairs that people and most so the devil can use to harm us. It is getting even easier for the devil with the social media shouts and tweets and hashtags.

This is not to say do not lead your life. Find balance and know when to let out what to and to whom and more so how to do so. Find moderation with the information you let out in whatever areas in life; business, career, marriage, relationships. Be picky with words and Think Before Talking (#TBT)

LADIES- TRUTHS TO KNOW


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After my earlier post on GUYS- TRUTHS TO KNOW, so many beautiful comments and remarks came in and above all some honest criticism followed like” you are biased by leaving the guys section out”. So now ladies these are a few truth we have to know so that we do not end up cursing no one but ourselves. Men bow to Respect, Loyalty and Care.

A girl who does not fear God will hardly be his pick when he finally decides is isle time. To them it goes beyond beauty and brains. He needs to be sure that his investment won’t be reinvested in a wrong place (lol)

A ladies worth is more in her character than her appearance. Before you start quoting wrong, please look good, dress good, smell good, put the right make it but be sure to know that it goes beyond the physical. It’s not like as it’s popularly said that they look for their mama in you, no; they just need to know that you know loyalty, tenacity and will teach the kids right morals.

A lady who cannot cook, clean and handle basic domestic chaos is not even on the list of possible winners. Call it 14th century or 21st; the belly power stands out. No one is asking you to be “master chef” or spring cleaning expert. You won’t want to blame Delilah for taking care of the man you ought to have handled right.

A lady who is too swallowed up in “miss independent” disqualifies herself. It is good to work and be able to handle stuffs but men are providers. No man rich or poor, fat or slim, tall or short will let the part of his ego be trample because you are a career woman and financially viable. Everything has its place. Men Pursue, Provide and Protect. Take this away from them and you will not be the one; can never I beg to say.

A lady who doesn’t know how to pamper her man, well you know what they say; all men are big babies. Like us they need affection. They need some tender loving. I didn’t say you should start doing to bfs what is done to husbands but in all pampering has its place in all. Do not be all “Margret Tachery” and needy like they too do not have needs. No man likes to be nagged at.

A lady who cannot comprehend that men love their mothers and will somewhat want a piece of that in their wife doesn’t imply that they need you bossing down their throats and acting all control freak. Let them have their space and they will make adequate room for you J

Men are not only after beauty but brains. A lazy woman who thinks a man should be her sponsor is in for a loss. Ladies get working. Do not see him as a solely a provider and you the eater be a contributor.

It’s not compatibility but suitability.

Let me know what you think?

Feelings Fade


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He held my hand and chills went down my spine

I wasn’t having butterflies

I was just feeling different.

There is more to love than feelings. There is more to life than just existing. Find true purpose in whatever drives you. Feelings might fade and fail. The essence or the purpose will keep you going. DO NOT let feelings only determine your decisions.

Have a great weekend and make sure you feel great

 

Offensive True Friends


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Friendships are a persons life wire if i am permitted to say so. The desire to have true friends is real. In a world of people acting as friends just for their own benefits and people taking advantage of one another in the name of friendship, we need to clarify what a true friend is and much more how to identify them

A true is not someone that only loves and cares when they need you. A true friend is not someone that is honest to you because they want to buy time to pave their way into your life and exploit you emotionally, financially, materially and the list is endless

Here are a few thing to note on who true friends are and how they react

  1. They forgive one another no matter how it hurts. Mind you do not be stupid enough to identify convenience for friendship
  2. They work at bearing  one another weaknesses. Mind you if someone chooses to remain is perpetual error, that is not a weakness. It is taking advantage of your kindness
  3. They venture to be offensive. Sometimes our true friends offend us though not intentionally. It is just a sweet way of taking us out of our comfort zone. Their motives are genuine and not sneaky

How do your true friends react, how do you define them?