Tips On How To Be Found By Yours – 1


 

quotes-Being-Alone-Doesn-t-.jpgThe relationship world is one of the busiest of all in this age and time. Most people are in love relationship, others are in a benefit relationships, others marriage in relationships. Yet more are longing to find their own partners to settle down. So here is the foundation of this series.

Tip 1:

Be Truly Alone

Most people want to settle down but they are already settled and yet hope to be found. Be truly alone and the one will find you. If you are occupied then you are not available for the one to find you. Be single and you will be found. Playing games only makes you stupid ; self deceit is the worst of all deceit. Stop dragging around unnecessary relationships. Be honest to yourself and make room for what you want, desire and deserve and you will get the best…

Just my thought….what do you think?

Angry At Men, Mad at Women


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I am angry at men for the lies they tell and mad at women for believing all of it

I am angry at men for thinking that being the head means they have the brains and mad at women for letting the head overplay the heart. There is truly no head without a heart.

I am angry at men who are threaten by a woman’s success and mad at women who let this insecurities curb their potentials

I am angry at men who treat women like trash and mad at women who do not know their worth

I am angry at men who think is okay to keep late nights (family) and mad at women who stay up all night to wait for them giving them more room.

I am angry at men who call every women they meet “baby, sweet etc’’ and mad at women who smile to it; I mean does he even know your name (flirting side)

At the end I smile because if there is no woman, there is no man and hence no world. Women know your worth, be virtuous, submissive yet wise.

“Marriage is not for me”


Marriage is not for me

I was watching this interesting interview on “marriage is not for me” by “our “icons Shonda Rhimes and Oprah Winfrey. You know there is just something about information and especially from people we look up to, or are celebrities. Personally I think some of the most twisted ideas are from the so say icons and the truth is behind closed doors the reality of their global speeches holds on to them.

The truth is everyone is entitled to your opinion. I just do not understand how you will want your life to be everyone’s life. You can have kids with a man but a man will take up your time? How twisted is that? Well that is not the essence of this post today.

Marriage is for me (1 Cor 7:2b). Do you want to know why?

  • It is a gift from my creator (1Cor 7:7)
  • It is honourable (Heb 13:4)
  • It should not be forbidden ( 1Tim 4:3)
  • It is responsibility ( 1 Cor 7:33)
  • It is not a sin ( 1 Cor 7:28)

Do not fear what they fear or speak what they speak. Have a mind of your own and not generalities. There is a man or wan out there for you as husband or wife but still if you are not “CALLED “to be married it is still great. God does not speak English, He uses ENGLISH. To be continued ….

Why You Should Love Him More


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Why we spend our time seeking love

He seeks us out to love us

He is not one to cheat

He is not one to be unfaithful

He is not one to use and expliot us

He is consistent and ever dependable

Rather than invest so much in loving people who a liable to let us down

We should seek to know Him and let Him love us right

And led us onto people He was trained in His kind of love

Israel (insert your name ), out looking for a place to rest,
    met God out looking for them!”
God told them, “I’ve never quit loving you and never will.(Jer 31:3)

 

Wrongly Sure


Oh how I love the gift of life, how I appreciate being among the living, pain free not excluding of emotional pain

Have you ever been so sure of something that nothing could make you think otherwise, even the pounding heart beats and the loud screams of your inner voice or subtly whisper of that Still voice.

Putting all the dots to assure you that you are right and then you wake up to know that you were so wrongly sure? I have been there, opening your heart to love and believing all he says and trying to use “church” to justify it and oops it comes clear and I just can’t get mad because I ignored the warning and played justification. Not on instincts but on knowing.

Him alone knows all, like David, do the “inquiry thing” even about all so that like me you don’t get wrongly sure and dream false. I’m now doing the inquiry 🙂

Peace!

Missing Out On Purpose


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It is oftentimes easy to miss out on purpose when we meet some that matches our passion and dreams. We have to be careful not to miss out on the purpose for which ,God created the meeting. #Inquiry

Life they say begins with a meeting

They met in church. Never really spoke spoke to each other but every gaze was defined. It had deep rooted visible meanings not just to her but to all that saw. This is perfect. God knows how to answer prayers that keep all the compatibility checks in place( spiritual, emotional, financial, communication … add to her list)

It seemed like everything she prayed for. Their purpose and passions we so in line and yes they were all serving in church. Church doesn’t kill the demons we have Christ does. Things seemed great till other girls furry grew. Unknown to her his past and present fondling’s with them was the cause. How do you do church and still try to play “Christ”.

She talked to him about it. Her zeal for God seemed to trim the sloppiness of his faith. Time and age was pressing on their relationship. Insecurities set in and pride took over. Pride and love cannot co-exist. Never. Too many emotional wounds and blackmails grew. Compromise was beginning to have foothold. The strong hold had to be broken. We often want to impose our answers on God and yet ask for His “Will”. They had to sit down and be honest with each other. They were trying to impose on destiny and not pursue destiny. They parted ways and remain distant friends and now both basking in the Glory of His goodness. If live makes their part cross again, good but if not purpose is being lived in their separate lives