The Perfect man

Your opinion of my prefect man is perfect. I appreciate your love because in your eyes I see he is perfect. The right height, appropriate age, prefect skin colour, fine eyes, glittering teeth and those drop dead abs with the right number of veins on his muscular skin, being able to lift me up to touch the moon and put me in a sweet dream(#put me to bed).

So I got to thinking;

Did you check if he has the right heart and loves the Most High?

Did you check just his skin or the scares that are born out of unconditional sacrifices?

Are his eyes just fine or do you think he will fill me life with fun and laughter and make me smile out my white teeth?

Is he just aged or mature?

Is it just the veins or you’re sure he will value me and bring out the best in me?

Is it just about lifting my body what happens to my Spirit?

Will i just have sweet dreams or be in the sweet place at the end of life?

Your answer will make me look into your opinion for me.




Ruth had her man and he was called Boaz. My Boaz is not called Boaz but has BOAZ traits

B: – Boldly identifies me uniquely as his in this world of  many varieties and similarities

O: -Originally a smart worker & focused on His purpose and family

A: -Attractive and pays attention to my needs and that of others. Empathy is him

Z: Zealously loves God and works for God

There is a BOAZ out there for every daughter of the King. Trust His timing and trust your timing. No room for anxiety and comparisons. Stay focused and excited for yours is coming.


Crown Wife


A hearty wife invigorates her husband,

A wife with strength of character is the crown of her husband

A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband

A virtuous and excellent wife [worthy of honor] is the crown of her husband

A dignified wife brings honor to her husband

A virtuous wife is her husband’s crown

An excellent wife is the crown of her husband

A wife of noble character[a] is her husband’s crown

How To Be Found By Yours- 4


Personally i love love. So do not get it twisted, love is a beautiful thing. Does that mean we should go about worrying about love and who will love us or who we will love? Well no. Love is seeking (purposefully) not worrying. Seeking to be and do things right and in perspective. Marriage is for eternity and is meant to bring glory to The marriage Creator. This brings me to my 4th Tip Continue reading

I Don’t Want Your House


I’m not sure if I understand why some things are the way they are or seem but for sure some things are just out of place

Everyone wants to have their own things and be their own bosses that is so fine, me too i want that. Now you get my point , I understand this but for Ladies especially to just want to get married because it’s the necessary thing, to be in a big house and have your own living room? I think it’s pretty shallow.

No don’t get me wrong I love fine houses, nothing is wrong in having a great house but a great home should be what we go after. I’m tired of being in houses; the best you can give people is a home, that serene place, filled with love, joy, laughter, peace, God. A place where even after a tiring day, once foot is step in it feels like work never existed.

People build houses and we make a home. So ladies, do not just strive to get into a man’s house. Work at giving him and your family a home.

My Marriage Compatibility List


Often I have heard and been taught that before picking a spouse you need to look out for Compatibility areas. So, since it is a life time journey, from my readings and inspiration, i came up with this compatibility list.

  1. Spiritual Compatibility  (Amos 3:3)
  2. Financial Compatibilty ( Heb 13:5, Matt6:24 , Prov 17:16)
  3. Character Compatibility (Prov 22:24)
  4. Emotional Compatibility (Prov 27:17)
  5. Communication Compatibility ( Eph 4:26, Prov 18:13)
  6. Physical Compatibility (1 Pet 3:3-4, Gen 24:16, Gen 29:17, I sam 16:12, Est 2:7)

And there we have it. Still not sure if Educational compatibility should be included. Let me know what you think or if you have other prime compatibility or supporting scriptures. 🙂