Relationship Goals


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Ask a business man what a goal is and you will know that setting sex as a goal in your relationships is a dumb thing to do and if you are yet to be married and sex is still a goal to you, you need to seek a therapist… #loudthoughts

Happy new month

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LADIES- TRUTHS TO KNOW


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After my earlier post on GUYS- TRUTHS TO KNOW, so many beautiful comments and remarks came in and above all some honest criticism followed like” you are biased by leaving the guys section out”. So now ladies these are a few truth we have to know so that we do not end up cursing no one but ourselves. Men bow to Respect, Loyalty and Care.

A girl who does not fear God will hardly be his pick when he finally decides is isle time. To them it goes beyond beauty and brains. He needs to be sure that his investment won’t be reinvested in a wrong place (lol)

A ladies worth is more in her character than her appearance. Before you start quoting wrong, please look good, dress good, smell good, put the right make it but be sure to know that it goes beyond the physical. It’s not like as it’s popularly said that they look for their mama in you, no; they just need to know that you know loyalty, tenacity and will teach the kids right morals.

A lady who cannot cook, clean and handle basic domestic chaos is not even on the list of possible winners. Call it 14th century or 21st; the belly power stands out. No one is asking you to be “master chef” or spring cleaning expert. You won’t want to blame Delilah for taking care of the man you ought to have handled right.

A lady who is too swallowed up in “miss independent” disqualifies herself. It is good to work and be able to handle stuffs but men are providers. No man rich or poor, fat or slim, tall or short will let the part of his ego be trample because you are a career woman and financially viable. Everything has its place. Men Pursue, Provide and Protect. Take this away from them and you will not be the one; can never I beg to say.

A lady who doesn’t know how to pamper her man, well you know what they say; all men are big babies. Like us they need affection. They need some tender loving. I didn’t say you should start doing to bfs what is done to husbands but in all pampering has its place in all. Do not be all “Margret Tachery” and needy like they too do not have needs. No man likes to be nagged at.

A lady who cannot comprehend that men love their mothers and will somewhat want a piece of that in their wife doesn’t imply that they need you bossing down their throats and acting all control freak. Let them have their space and they will make adequate room for you J

Men are not only after beauty but brains. A lazy woman who thinks a man should be her sponsor is in for a loss. Ladies get working. Do not see him as a solely a provider and you the eater be a contributor.

It’s not compatibility but suitability.

Let me know what you think?

I Can’t Do With Your


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Your validation validates

Your praise raises

Your favour erases stress

Your grace en-graces

Your love saves

Your peace quietens

Your arm protects

Your eyes establishes worth

Your voice makes a difference

Your breath livens

Your blood works

Your presence is mighty

Your singing is rejoicing

Without You, there is no me

 

Six Tips To Be At Peace In Your Singleness


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We are in a generation of boo and bae and so you who is in a relationship if your focus is not right might begin to feel left out and possibly unloved but that should not be the case. You can still be happy and enjoy life even without a boo or bae. They do not validate who you are. Having a man or woman in your life is not what stops you from being lonely. I know very many lonely boo’s and bae’s lol. Being single doesn’t mean lonely and also being single is not a defect. Do not yourself lose your peace or let anyone make you feel depressed

These are just a few tips to stay in peace in your single state

  1. Stay your heart on God ( Isa 26:3)
  2. Seek out His promises and stay on them bearing in mind Abraham, Hannah and many others who saw promises fulfilled
  3. Spend your time empowering yourself and developing your skills and talents. Use this stage to discover your purpose and pursue it
  4. Take away the time factor and unnecessary comparisons with others. Your life is on a different calendar from that of others
  5. Stop the obsession with marriage. Marriage is not a do or die affair and not everyone might end up being married
  6. Take away the age factor. It is not about doing things early but doing them right

 

Peace makes us receive more than worry. Your better half is on the way so stay in peace.

If You Were Me


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Yes Me

I made everything for you

I gave you everything

Pour out my best in you

Gave my best for you

Now you treat me as invisible

You put things before me

You put self before me

You put your desires before mine

If you were me,

How would you feel?

I will go for another

Another more appreciative

Another needier of me

Another more accepting of me

I pray you come back to me

Before I totally close my door

Yes the door to my wedding feast

Everyone is invited yet it’s time bound

If you were me

How would you feel

Tips On How To Be Found By Yours – 3


 

quotes-Until-you-do-what-isNow onto our 3rd tip on how to be found by yours

Tip 3 : Get Working

Yes I know you already have a job or are in the process of getting one. However, that is not what I mean. Begin working on yourself both on your in-looks and out-looks. You must be pleasantly admirable. We do marry humans not spirits… so work on both the physical you and the spirit you. Work on your potentials.Put your priorities in order.

Take this single season to grow yourself into the best of you that you can be because when married you will be occupied by many new things and you need to be in a state to attract what whom you desire

A wise man once said that “until you do the right thing, your rights will not be given to you” so get working so you can attract what will make for your glorious destiny