Counting Cost


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Loss or gain, count your cost

Beyond Mathematics or Accounting, count the cost

It is time to build, count the cost

It’s battle time, count your cost

Before spewing out those words, count the cost

You want to start a relationship, count the cost

You want begin that business, count the cost

Save yourself from shame by; counting cost

Emerge successful by counting cost

Love will cost you

Hate will cost you

People will cost you

Life will cost you

Investments will cost you

Even Jesus counted His cost

Begin to count the cost, clarity and proper planning will set in

Count your cost today

(Luke 14:25-34)

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3 Classes Of People


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It is often said that he that doesn’t work should not eat. Now it is beyond a he thing. Everyone; male or female have/ need to work. We pray for a job and doors open for some in areas they are qualified in and for other, areas they are not qualified for.There are many ways we can approach the job we got. This is how a job is approached by my 3 classes of people

  1. Those who take the job God gave them seriously ( this is not not to say we should turn the job into a god)
  2. Those with natural abilities to do the job God gave them and work hard
  3. Those who know that God gave them the job and depend on Him for execution.( working as unto the Lord, with a greater purpose of meeting needs)

This is just to encourage you to be grateful for having a job and to work with all your heart till a new shift comes. Have a great working day

Happy Choice


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Now listen you must make a choice to be happy. Yes, happiness is yours to determine and yours to maintain. If you let people and situations beyond your control determine if you will be happy or not, you will definitely miss out on being your own person.

Being you is the best there is to be. Building your own happiness is your duty and only a happy you can make others happy. It is all in you. You have what it takes. Situations unpleasant are bound to happen. People are prune to change but the choice remains yours to grow your happiness. Take it deeper by even desiring the spirit of JOY

JOY is not situational. It comes from within and a gift and it is a spirit.

Moderation


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Have you ever met a talky person? They most often than not bring life and energy into any gathering. They are like the positive energy to kill boredom. However, they land in much trouble once they do not learn when to bridle their tongues.

Most times we talk too much for our good. I am not an advocate for being secretive, however we need to use wisdom and not destroy ourselves by giving out so much information about us and our affairs that people and most so the devil can use to harm us. It is getting even easier for the devil with the social media shouts and tweets and hashtags.

This is not to say do not lead your life. Find balance and know when to let out what to and to whom and more so how to do so. Find moderation with the information you let out in whatever areas in life; business, career, marriage, relationships. Be picky with words and Think Before Talking (#TBT)

True Wisdom


Pure – doesn’t defile

Peaceful – gives all round rest

Gentle – not imposing but “proof-ful”

Reasonable – not abstract but extra-ordinary

Full of mercy and good works – shares and benefits others

Without partiality – no race, age, sex, colour, ethnic and what have you distinctions

Without hypocrisy – no claims of higher standards or more noble beliefs

@James 3:13-18

LADIES- TRUTHS TO KNOW


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After my earlier post on GUYS- TRUTHS TO KNOW, so many beautiful comments and remarks came in and above all some honest criticism followed like” you are biased by leaving the guys section out”. So now ladies these are a few truth we have to know so that we do not end up cursing no one but ourselves. Men bow to Respect, Loyalty and Care.

A girl who does not fear God will hardly be his pick when he finally decides is isle time. To them it goes beyond beauty and brains. He needs to be sure that his investment won’t be reinvested in a wrong place (lol)

A ladies worth is more in her character than her appearance. Before you start quoting wrong, please look good, dress good, smell good, put the right make it but be sure to know that it goes beyond the physical. It’s not like as it’s popularly said that they look for their mama in you, no; they just need to know that you know loyalty, tenacity and will teach the kids right morals.

A lady who cannot cook, clean and handle basic domestic chaos is not even on the list of possible winners. Call it 14th century or 21st; the belly power stands out. No one is asking you to be “master chef” or spring cleaning expert. You won’t want to blame Delilah for taking care of the man you ought to have handled right.

A lady who is too swallowed up in “miss independent” disqualifies herself. It is good to work and be able to handle stuffs but men are providers. No man rich or poor, fat or slim, tall or short will let the part of his ego be trample because you are a career woman and financially viable. Everything has its place. Men Pursue, Provide and Protect. Take this away from them and you will not be the one; can never I beg to say.

A lady who doesn’t know how to pamper her man, well you know what they say; all men are big babies. Like us they need affection. They need some tender loving. I didn’t say you should start doing to bfs what is done to husbands but in all pampering has its place in all. Do not be all “Margret Tachery” and needy like they too do not have needs. No man likes to be nagged at.

A lady who cannot comprehend that men love their mothers and will somewhat want a piece of that in their wife doesn’t imply that they need you bossing down their throats and acting all control freak. Let them have their space and they will make adequate room for you J

Men are not only after beauty but brains. A lazy woman who thinks a man should be her sponsor is in for a loss. Ladies get working. Do not see him as a solely a provider and you the eater be a contributor.

It’s not compatibility but suitability.

Let me know what you think?