You get fond of a guy/girl and they begin to think that your world is solely depended on them? What a fallacy. People chose to be friends with you or make you a part of their world not out of your superiority but out of sheer understanding that we all need each other to survive and because people offer us room to learn and grow.
You keep acting up and yes, the accommodate it but it can’t be so forever. So now if you are thinking that they are going to be begging you always when you begin acting up after they have called you to order severally and condone your swings, then you have another thing coming. You should get ready for a long wait. Two wrongs do not make a right yet friendship is an agreement of two to share common concerns and interest so why do you want only your interest to continually be served.
Learn to value every moment and every experience. Turning the hands of time is not a privilege we all can command at will. Value your friendships….you never know what tomorrow holds.
Personally i love love. So do not get it twisted, love is a beautiful thing. Does that mean we should go about worrying about love and who will love us or who we will love? Well no. Love is seeking (purposefully) not worrying. Seeking to be and do things right and in perspective. Marriage is for eternity and is meant to bring glory to The marriage Creator. This brings me to my 4th Tip Continue reading
Now onto our 3rd tip on how to be found by yours
Tip 3 : Get Working
Yes I know you already have a job or are in the process of getting one. However, that is not what I mean. Begin working on yourself both on your in-looks and out-looks. You must be pleasantly admirable. We do marry humans not spirits… so work on both the physical you and the spirit you. Work on your potentials.Put your priorities in order.
Take this single season to grow yourself into the best of you that you can be because when married you will be occupied by many new things and you need to be in a state to attract what whom you desire
A wise man once said that “until you do the right thing, your rights will not be given to you” so get working so you can attract what will make for your glorious destiny
Your want to be found be yours, my next tip
Tip 2: Be Content
This is not to say get sloppy or lose interest but celebrate this stage of singleness knowing that chance and time happens to all. If you keep wishing you were in a relationship or married, you will miss out on the fun of this stage and the learning you need to, do that will prepare you for the next of your life.
Life is in stages. Some people maybe ahead of you at one stage or another, it doesn’t mean your turn will not come. Creation was purposefully made so celebrate where you are now and look forward to where you will be soonest not from the eyes of desperation but from a place of confidence and worth.
Hope tip 1 was helpful. Stay blessed
The relationship world is one of the busiest of all in this age and time. Most people are in love relationship, others are in a benefit relationships, others marriage in relationships. Yet more are longing to find their own partners to settle down. So here is the foundation of this series.
Be Truly Alone
Most people want to settle down but they are already settled and yet hope to be found. Be truly alone and the one will find you. If you are occupied then you are not available for the one to find you. Be single and you will be found. Playing games only makes you stupid ; self deceit is the worst of all deceit. Stop dragging around unnecessary relationships. Be honest to yourself and make room for what you want, desire and deserve and you will get the best…
Just my thought….what do you think?
She is on the altar of prayer. in the art of true worship. yet no matter how amazing the music and songs are that ooze from her mouth, she is in tears and sobbing so hard that people around her can’t tell the contrast and wonder why or what God must be telling her.
Few weeks after that she finds herself in a compromising situation and position and actions. Kissing and necking and all those petty romance things. Her conscience is pressing in on her. He had been pressing in with his demands towards her. She is careful but then with the lies and betrayals in her life she felt like a little body defiling won’t hurt her but she was wrong. Selling cheap to cheating and dishonesty doesn’t make for worth.
Now was the worship hour wailing a sign of danger ahead. Was it weeping ahead of time in repentance from upcoming sin? What if she could understand the language God uses to speak to her?
Kindly share your thoughts. Thank you