Relationship Goals


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Ask a business man what a goal is and you will know that setting sex as a goal in your relationships is a dumb thing to do and if you are yet to be married and sex is still a goal to you, you need to seek a therapist… #loudthoughts

Happy new month

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What Is The Christian Thing To Do?


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They insulted and disrespected you because they are older. Is respect based on age? What is the Christian thing to do?

They are openly biased and show partiality and you can see and feel it. Everything thing tells you to do something. What is the Christian thing to do?

They play with your heart even though ‘born again” and even with your body and you are aware that you are not the only victim. You see new preys of theirs around. What is the Christian thing to do?

You work and very diligently yet they take you for a ride and even under pay you. What is the Christian thing to do?

They push you to the wall and drag you to the edge and yet hope that you pass the other cheek. The truth is there are no more cheeks to turn. What is the Christian thing to do?

You are true and nice and open your hands and heart and yet all they do is take information from you to heart you. What is the Christian thing to do?

They exploit and take advantage of your niceness and then turn around to paint you black with plastic front smiles and backstabbing stories. What is the Christian thing to do?

Like McReynolds says” help me maintain

Life will posse situations and challenges to us that if we do not manage well we might lose our very selves. Choice is our exit. Prayer is the way out. What is do is pray for God to help me maintain

BOAZ


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Ruth had her man and he was called Boaz. My Boaz is not called Boaz but has BOAZ traits

B: – Boldly identifies me uniquely as his in this world of  many varieties and similarities

O: -Originally a smart worker & focused on His purpose and family

A: -Attractive and pays attention to my needs and that of others. Empathy is him

Z: Zealously loves God and works for God

There is a BOAZ out there for every daughter of the King. Trust His timing and trust your timing. No room for anxiety and comparisons. Stay focused and excited for yours is coming.

 

Moderation


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Have you ever met a talky person? They most often than not bring life and energy into any gathering. They are like the positive energy to kill boredom. However, they land in much trouble once they do not learn when to bridle their tongues.

Most times we talk too much for our good. I am not an advocate for being secretive, however we need to use wisdom and not destroy ourselves by giving out so much information about us and our affairs that people and most so the devil can use to harm us. It is getting even easier for the devil with the social media shouts and tweets and hashtags.

This is not to say do not lead your life. Find balance and know when to let out what to and to whom and more so how to do so. Find moderation with the information you let out in whatever areas in life; business, career, marriage, relationships. Be picky with words and Think Before Talking (#TBT)

Feelings Fade


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He held my hand and chills went down my spine

I wasn’t having butterflies

I was just feeling different.

There is more to love than feelings. There is more to life than just existing. Find true purpose in whatever drives you. Feelings might fade and fail. The essence or the purpose will keep you going. DO NOT let feelings only determine your decisions.

Have a great weekend and make sure you feel great