A Girl like Me!


me.pngToo many people spend their lives wondering when next that good thing will happen to them. There is nothing wrong with that but then what ” a girl like me” discovered is that good things are not to be waited for they already exit. The good you seek is not from without but from within. Take time out, look WITHIN you and understand who you are, where you are form, what you are created to do and stick to your source.

For me i have picked a few true friends so i know I get the good daily. I know how to read and write so i get the good always. I know how to look at situations that think they can scare me and laugh at them. A girl like me knows that a Higher than her has her best interested at heart and His love is so sure and He WILL do all to make her have the good.

” A GIRL LIKE ME is the kind you should follow. Life begins with a meeting, hope we meet and grow.

Merry Christmas. It is a New DAWN

 

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All I Really Want And Need


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Pressing through to you

All I really want and need is You

You make a way

Some call you Way Maker

Others Promise keeper

You are above and beyond all

All I really want is You

Take everything

Take everything

All I really want is You

You sort me and found me

Your love is rich

So rich  it never runs out or dry

Grateful I am for your Love

Take everything

All I truly want and need is You

 

Men Preferences


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You know what they say about going to a fast food joint on a festive day right? You get to a place like Wendy’s and you hear people placing thier orders. One says “I want cheese burger” and other “beef burger” ;reason-because all through the week their meals have had chicken touch to it and  another “ vegetable burger” as they are trying to keep fit.

It resonates to me well and I related it to us ladies and our preferences in men ( just my loud mind talking)

Finisher men are more attractive than starters

Fix it men are preferred to fondling ones

Praying men are preferred to players

Listeners are preferred to garrulous men.. @Atim’s

Ladies help me add the list and guys do you agree?

Happy Sunday

BOAZ


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Ruth had her man and he was called Boaz. My Boaz is not called Boaz but has BOAZ traits

B: – Boldly identifies me uniquely as his in this world of  many varieties and similarities

O: -Originally a smart worker & focused on His purpose and family

A: -Attractive and pays attention to my needs and that of others. Empathy is him

Z: Zealously loves God and works for God

There is a BOAZ out there for every daughter of the King. Trust His timing and trust your timing. No room for anxiety and comparisons. Stay focused and excited for yours is coming.

 

LADIES- TRUTHS TO KNOW


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After my earlier post on GUYS- TRUTHS TO KNOW, so many beautiful comments and remarks came in and above all some honest criticism followed like” you are biased by leaving the guys section out”. So now ladies these are a few truth we have to know so that we do not end up cursing no one but ourselves. Men bow to Respect, Loyalty and Care.

A girl who does not fear God will hardly be his pick when he finally decides is isle time. To them it goes beyond beauty and brains. He needs to be sure that his investment won’t be reinvested in a wrong place (lol)

A ladies worth is more in her character than her appearance. Before you start quoting wrong, please look good, dress good, smell good, put the right make it but be sure to know that it goes beyond the physical. It’s not like as it’s popularly said that they look for their mama in you, no; they just need to know that you know loyalty, tenacity and will teach the kids right morals.

A lady who cannot cook, clean and handle basic domestic chaos is not even on the list of possible winners. Call it 14th century or 21st; the belly power stands out. No one is asking you to be “master chef” or spring cleaning expert. You won’t want to blame Delilah for taking care of the man you ought to have handled right.

A lady who is too swallowed up in “miss independent” disqualifies herself. It is good to work and be able to handle stuffs but men are providers. No man rich or poor, fat or slim, tall or short will let the part of his ego be trample because you are a career woman and financially viable. Everything has its place. Men Pursue, Provide and Protect. Take this away from them and you will not be the one; can never I beg to say.

A lady who doesn’t know how to pamper her man, well you know what they say; all men are big babies. Like us they need affection. They need some tender loving. I didn’t say you should start doing to bfs what is done to husbands but in all pampering has its place in all. Do not be all “Margret Tachery” and needy like they too do not have needs. No man likes to be nagged at.

A lady who cannot comprehend that men love their mothers and will somewhat want a piece of that in their wife doesn’t imply that they need you bossing down their throats and acting all control freak. Let them have their space and they will make adequate room for you J

Men are not only after beauty but brains. A lazy woman who thinks a man should be her sponsor is in for a loss. Ladies get working. Do not see him as a solely a provider and you the eater be a contributor.

It’s not compatibility but suitability.

Let me know what you think?