You call my love a bluff?
Don’t get me wrong okay
You are right to call my love a bluff
Is that truly what it is?
Or is it that you are so used to wrong love that you can’t identify pure love?
Yes, pure love
You are so use to quickies that a wait is just wrong
You are so use to been lied too that the truth is cliché
You are used to games that honest moves you doubt
Your foolhardiness churns me
Do not blame your wrong love on me
You only attracted what you rated yourself to have
You are worth more but what if you do not know so?
What if you keep rating yourself needy and desperate?
How is that my fault?
I can’t let my love be a bluff
I won’t let you convert me
I will walk away and pray
Pray that you heal to identify love
A love that heals
A love that is true
A love that is genuine
A love that seeks out the best and to be the best
I pray you will not bluff true love when next it comes
I love you yet i love me too
Robbing Peter to pay Paul is not me
You more real than, wind in my lung
You more real than the ground i’m standing on
Your thought define me, you’re inside me
You are my reality
You’re closer than the skin on my bone
You’re closer than the song on my tongue
You’re thought define me, you’re inside me
you’re my reality
Abba… I belong to you
Abba… I belong to you…. Thank you for another year. Happy Birthday to me
Relationships are the best thing in this life. It could be with God, parents, children, husband, wife, friends, cousins and the list is endless. However today , I want to share mine which was an emotional one where all sorts of butterfly feelings interplay and most often demands made.
Love is a beautiful thing. I love love. I had the notion before getting to the Uni that the first man I will love will be my husband so I prayed that it be so. No it wasn’t the case. I got my heart broken because I never really knew what the world had define a love relationship between a boy and a girl. The world had so fixed the sequence in a way that, once the guy makes his intention known and the lady says yes.. the first few weeks and in a few cases months, then the next big thing is SEX and more sex as long as the relationship last till you get to the next one and the sequence replays itself.
That is not what I was educated to accept and with the love of God shared in my heart that is not the part I was to go. I am supposed to keep my body till marriage and freely surrender to my husband. The more you said no the sex after prolonged kissing trails, you are looked at as mean and not considerate. So what is there to do but pray for a better option that will not hurt you once you say no to SEX. That was how I got into my first long distance relationship.
Now see the logic. My partner will not be physically around so no demands of sex will be made and i won’t have to turn down the demand and end up heart broken. There will be no physical kissing and the likes. Again this is not to say that long distance relationships do not have their own sin packages. Yes sin package as it demands will move from demanding long calls, snoopy lifestyle to nude pictures and skype stripping and more and if those too turned down… you find yourself at the same spot.
The point I want to leave us with is this. Let love be genuine and never compromise your beliefs for temporary pleasures. Also do not settle for a convenient relationship but go for someone that values you and your principles and at the center of your love affair should be God and his ways. It is not about a guy in church as from my experience those are the ones that encourage you to fornicate with your eyes wide open under the umbrella of grace. Grace is not sloppy. Do not use long distance relationships as an escape from pre-marital sex because if you will not have sex physically , I am telling you if your foundation in God is not solid you will have phone sex and every other kind of social media relationship perversion.
Go for a relationship that adds to you and not one which subtracts from you. Loving God in this age and time is not easy both for young Christian gents and ladies but I am more thankful that we have the Holy Ghost and with Him we can run through a troop and leap over walls.
What is your take on long distance relationships?