Feeling Of Bias


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The feeling of bias or partiality is not a new thing in the church. In the early church,there was discrimination about food among fellow brethren. In this day and time, it is going worse in cases where our love walk is still shaky.

What i have come to realize is that this feeling of bias and partiality is fueled from the fact that we seek self glory then the glory of God. The solution for bias and partiality among believing believers is the Holy Ghost. The spirit of wisdom helps us to know what to do per time. Once we put wisdom in place for the good of all, every down feeling gets cured and so to emotional imbalance

Are you one of those bias or feeling down ? Call the Holy Ghost today (Acts 6:3-10)

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Love Bluff


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What?

You call my love a bluff?

Don’t get me wrong okay

You are right to call my love a bluff

Is that truly what it is?

Or is it that you are so used to wrong love that you can’t identify pure love?

Yes, pure love

You are so use to quickies that a wait is just wrong

You are so use to been lied too that the truth is cliché

You are used to games that honest moves you doubt

Your foolhardiness churns me

Do not blame your wrong love on me

You only attracted what you rated yourself to have

You are worth more but what if you do not know so?

What if you keep rating yourself needy and desperate?

How is that my fault?

I can’t let my love be a bluff

I won’t let you convert me

I will walk away and pray

Pray that you heal to identify love

A love that heals

A love that is true

A love that is genuine

A love that seeks out the best and to be the best

I pray you will not bluff true love when next it comes

I love you yet i love me too

Robbing Peter to pay Paul is not me

This Year Song- Abba


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You more real than, wind in my lung

You more real than the ground i’m standing on

Your thought define me, you’re inside me

You are my reality

You’re closer than the skin on my bone

You’re closer than the song on my tongue

You’re thought define me, you’re inside me

you’re my reality

Abba… I belong to you

Abba… I belong to you…. Thank you for another year. Happy Birthday to me

Long Distance Relationship: An Escape Route From Pre-marital Sex


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Relationships are the best thing in this life. It could be with God, parents, children, husband, wife, friends, cousins and the list is endless. However today , I want to share mine which was an emotional one where all sorts of butterfly feelings interplay and most often demands made.1447178261905[1] (1)

Love is a beautiful thing. I love love. I had the notion before getting to the Uni that the first man I will love will be my husband so I prayed that it be so. No it wasn’t the case. I got my heart broken because I never really knew what the world had define a love relationship between a boy and a girl. The world had so fixed the sequence in a way that, once the guy makes his intention known and the lady says yes.. the first few weeks and in a few cases months, then the next big thing is SEX and more sex as long as the relationship last till you get to the next one and the sequence replays itself.

That is not what I was educated to accept and with the love of God shared in my heart that is not the part I was to go. I am supposed to keep my body till marriage and freely surrender to my husband. The more you said no the sex after prolonged kissing trails, you are looked at as mean and not considerate. So what is there to do but pray for a better option that will not hurt you once you say no to SEX. That was how I got into my first long distance relationship.

Now see the logic. My partner will not be physically around so no demands of sex will be made and i won’t have to turn down the demand and end up heart broken. There will be no physical kissing and the likes. Again this is not to say that long distance relationships do not have their own sin packages. Yes sin package as it demands will move from demanding long calls, snoopy lifestyle to nude pictures and skype stripping and more and if those too turned down… you find yourself at the same spot.

The point I want to leave us with is this. Let love be genuine and never compromise  your beliefs for temporary pleasures. Also do not settle for a convenient relationship but go for someone that values you and your principles and at the center of your love affair should be God and his ways. It is not about a guy in church as from my experience those are the ones that encourage you to fornicate with your eyes wide open under the umbrella of grace. Grace is not sloppy. Do not use long distance relationships as an escape from pre-marital sex because if you will not have sex physically , I am telling you if your foundation in God is not solid you will have phone sex and every other kind of social media relationship perversion.

Go for a relationship that adds to you and not one which subtracts from you. Loving God in this age and time is not easy both for young Christian gents and ladies but I am more thankful that we have the Holy Ghost and with Him we can run through a troop and leap over walls.

What is your take on long distance relationships?