Life Secrets


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Life is a gift and its worth celebrating and you can make the most out of each day. This is one way to make all great

  1.  Live quietly ( peace). Study quietness
  2. Mind your business ( stay focus on your goals and dreams)
  3. Work with your hands…. be productive. Kill people dependency syndrome. You have what it takes. Look within

( 1 Thes 4:11)

Value Your Friendships


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You get fond of a guy/girl and they begin to think that your world is solely depended on them? What a fallacy. People chose to be friends with you or make you a part of their world not out of your superiority but out of sheer understanding that we all need each other to survive and because people offer us room to learn and grow.

You keep acting up and yes, the accommodate it but it can’t be so forever. So now if you are thinking that they are going to be begging you always when you begin acting up after they have called you to order severally and condone your swings, then you have another thing coming. You should get ready for a long wait. Two wrongs do not make a right yet friendship is an agreement of two to share common concerns and interest so why do you want only your interest to continually be served.

Learn to value every moment and every experience. Turning the hands of time is not a privilege we all can command at will. Value your friendships….you never know what tomorrow holds.

Enemy Thoughts


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You think I am your enemy because I snap at you at every wrong

You think I am your enemy because my face doesn’t hide its emotion

You think I am your enemy because I force you to bring out your best

I do not think I am your enemy

I am your motivation

I am your friend

Enemies do pretend

Enemies will wear a fake smile

Enemies will rejoice at you remaining small

How To Be Found By Yours- 5


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Getting found is a process. Patience is needed for the process to be materialized as well as established. In as much as the man has to do the finding, the lady has to ensure she is adequately positioned. If interest and attraction already in place, check to see that your priorities in place and more so it won’t hurt to do some compatibility checks.

  1. Spiritual Compatibility  (Amos 3:3)
  2. Financial Compatibility ( Heb 13:5, Matt6:24 , Prov 17:16)
  3. Character Compatibility (Prov 22:24)
  4. Emotional Compatibility (Prov 27:17)
  5. Communication Compatibility ( Eph 4:26, Prov 18:13)
  6. Physical Compatibility (1 Pet 3:3-4, Gen 24:16, Gen 29:17, I sam 16:12, Est 2:7)

Yes compatibility checks. This will help you know if you have found yours or the finding process needs to continue. All categories must not be 100% but which ever you choose to make prime, it should be based on the purpose you believe you are here on earth to fulfill. Hope the list helps

Don’t Choke On It


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We all get the rough patches in life and too we walk in the blissful ones. So why beat yourself so bad for the wrong decisions you made. I am a strong believer in love and the many things that I love and believe in (food, cloths, music). I know it hurts when you believe in something/ someone and it lets you down. You often feel like you didn’t just make a mistake but you are a mistake.

You stay down choking on your mistakes. You have to forgive yourself. I have had my share of mistakes and honesty there was nothing to write home about. Knowledge dropped that my hurt will heal when I first forgive myself and know that I am human; I make mistakes but I can be better and work towards perfection. Continue reading