It Beats Riches


A true friend

A true friend is one who does not search for wealth, riches or company but searches for understanding, trust and care which goes to yield true happiness.A true friend is one who we adore, respect and cherish; and it must be reciprocal, against all odds.

A true friend is one who does not strive to be loved and to love in return, knowing that love is not just a matter of sharing but instead brings in you a powerful sense of understanding and belonging.

A true friend is one who does not worry about love and is not judgmental, because love is the knowledge but honors its coming with soul, body and spirit.

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Angry At Men, Mad at Women


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I am angry at men for the lies they tell and mad at women for believing all of it

I am angry at men for thinking that being the head means they have the brains and mad at women for letting the head overplay the heart. There is truly no head without a heart.

I am angry at men who are threaten by a woman’s success and mad at women who let this insecurities curb their potentials

I am angry at men who treat women like trash and mad at women who do not know their worth

I am angry at men who think is okay to keep late nights (family) and mad at women who stay up all night to wait for them giving them more room.

I am angry at men who call every women they meet “baby, sweet etc’’ and mad at women who smile to it; I mean does he even know your name (flirting side)

At the end I smile because if there is no woman, there is no man and hence no world. Women know your worth, be virtuous, submissive yet wise.

YOUR PERFECT MAN


The Perfect man

Your opinion of my prefect man is perfect. I appreciate your love because in your eyes I see he is perfect. The right height, appropriate age, prefect skin colour, fine eyes, glittering teeth and those drop dead abs with the right number of veins on his muscular skin, being able to lift me up to touch the moon and put me in a sweet dream(#put me to bed).

So I got to thinking;

Did you check if he has the right heart and loves the Most High?

Did you check just his skin or the scares that are born out of unconditional sacrifices?

Are his eyes just fine or do you think he will fill me life with fun and laughter and make me smile out my white teeth?

Is he just aged or mature?

Is it just the veins or you’re sure he will value me and bring out the best in me?

Is it just about lifting my body what happens to my Spirit?

Will i just have sweet dreams or be in the sweet place at the end of life?

Your answer will make me look into your opinion for me.

Garbage Anger


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Its intriguing how one write up triggers another. So I blogged this post; happy new month- new beginnings and a friend @KwiyuhM commented and said “ drop it and let hurt break” and I got into mode- inspired while replying in appreciation to him

After cooking we clean up; like right away (ladies perspective) and if we instead of taking the trash out we lock it up in the bin, waiting for “him” or other family members to take it out for us, we are calling for trouble if they do not agree and it stays in days and days and months and months and even years. Flies start flirting around, maggots grow hard and the smell even spoils the good meal we took so much time to cook. So are Anger/ Unforgiveness

People will or we will hurt others sometimes with or without our or their concern. The choice lies in us to let go of the hurt (cleaning out our trash after cooking) and not wait for them to come beginning ; giving them power over our emotions and our life.

If we however do not let go of the hurt but bottle it in, we will soon stink and people will not like being around us; as bitterness grows and no one likes a “ kill joy presence” around.

So forgive and let go , so you don’t stink with the anger stored in your heart. Guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of live