Offensive True Friends


Friendships are a persons life wire if i am permitted to say so. The desire to have true friends is real. In a world of people acting as friends just for their own benefits and people taking advantage of one another in the name of friendship, we need to clarify what a true friend is and much more how to identify them

A true is not someone that only loves and cares when they need you. A true friend is not someone that is honest to you because they want to buy time to pave their way into your life and exploit you emotionally, financially, materially and the list is endless

Here are a few thing to note on who true friends are and how they react

  1. They forgive one another no matter how it hurts. Mind you do not be stupid enough to identify convenience for friendship
  2. They work at bearing  one another weaknesses. Mind you if someone chooses to remain is perpetual error, that is not a weakness. It is taking advantage of your kindness
  3. They venture to be offensive. Sometimes our true friends offend us though not intentionally. It is just a sweet way of taking us out of our comfort zone. Their motives are genuine and not sneaky

How do your true friends react, how do you define them?


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