Life is a gift, Make the most of it. Not in your judging or not judging but in finding your real purpose and get at it whether they approve or not. All you need is within you
But who are we to tell God how to run His affairs?
He’s dealing with matters that are way over our heads.
Some people die in the prime of life,
with everything going for them—
fat and sassy.
Others die bitter and bereft,
never getting a taste of happiness.
They’re laid out side by side in the cemetery,
where the worms can’t tell one from the other ( Job 21:22-26)